Parents often teach school children to listen to them, to listen to a friend, grandmothers, educators, Larisa Ivanovna, a kindergarten guard, a concierge. It is important not to argue with all the elders, to be as pleasant as possible. As a result, we get schoolchildren who can easily leave with a stranger. Psychologists set up an experiment: out of 50 children who were approached by a stranger, only 1 child did not leave. It is important for the child to convey this idea: simple, smart adults will not ask the child for a favor, they will not ask to carry, buy sweets, find a key in the car. Of course, you need to help the old woman bring the bag to the entrance, but near the entrance the bag and the grandmother must be left, saying the magic words: "Thank you, but I need to go home." Then she will definitely be helped by one of the neighbors, relatives.
If a child meets someone from friends who offered to take him home, at this time it is important to teach him to call his parents and say: "Uncle Kolya wants to bring me home." You quickly call Uncle Kolya and check whether the child is telling the truth.
If your child or relative calls you and says, "Please meet me," be sure to do so. Very rarely do people ask to meet them because they wanted to. Maybe the child is unable to tell that someone is looking at him or someone is watching him.
The child needs to be taught to scream. A lot of children and adults do not know how to scream, they are shy, lazy. Go to the park, into the forest and start screaming. Show him an example.
It is never forbidden for a child to use social networks. He should have his own page, then you will see information about what and who he is interested in, what kind of music he listens to, who he wants to be friends with, who he likes. Once a month, scroll through the list of his comrades, you should be alerted by adult personalities, if they are not teachers. If you forbid him to create a page on the network, he will do it anyway and as a result you will see different fake pages with other people's photos and the age that is specified incorrectly.
Scenes of a sexual nature are the most innocent thing you can find on the web. You can also find a lot of information there "How to commit suicide" "How to use drugs" to get caught by scammers, intruders, run into cyberbullying.
Not only in life, but also online, the child must understand that he owes nothing to anyone. It is very important to bring this thought into the child's head, if strangers ask him for something, you always need to ask "Why do I have to do this?" "Why would I send my photo, give my cell phone, get up in the morning, give my money?"
It is advisable to spend several hours with the child at the computer, to show by example how to close windows on the network that suddenly opened with indecent pictures. It may seem like a small thing to you, but it's a real novelty to him.
If you find a child, you do not need to yell at him calmly explain that you were worried, Explain why this happened, that he was in danger. Explain to him that you were very worried, not and wanted to lose him.
Friends, do not lose your children, and most importantly, love them. Thank you for always staying with me. Subscribe to the blog news and stay up to date with the latest news! ДомСплит предлагает купить кондиционеры в Москве и Московской области по выгодной цене.
